Today’s media coverage unabashedly focuses on the downfalls of the modern relationship. Tabloids bombard us with tales of adultery in the celebrity world while magazines and television glorify being single. In this day and age, it is incredibly important that we continue to focus on developing the tools and knowledge necessary to form powerful, healthy, and fun relationships.
this is why the slinky effect was created.
The Slinky Effect describes constant progress in the same direction, while always taking turns pulling the other forward and remaining deeply connected every step of the way.
It is a healthy approach to any relationship (romantic, business, friendship) which allows each individual to celebrate the growth and expansion of themselves, their counterpart, and their partnership. Despite what all the media coverage would have you believe, these types of relationships are possible for everyone.
IT'S NOT JUST ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS THAT FOLLOW THIS PRINCIPLE.
We are in relationships with everything in our lives. We have a relationship to ourselves, our friends, our family, our co-workers, our pets, the Universe/God/Spirit -- everything in our life is either serving us or not, expanding our heart or not, in alignment with what we want or not - and it's all a direct reflection of who WE ARE BEING.
The moment we look within, take responsibility for everything we've created - good AND bad - and choose to consciously create from a place of self-awareness, we take that first Slinky step UP the stairs, and everything else MUST shift to follow. It must rearrange itself to remain an accurate reflection of who we are (becoming), and by doing so it will, in turn, pull US forward just like a Slinky would.
Life is a game. We get to choose which rules we will play by.